Lesson Or Experience #SharingIsCaring

Assalammualaikum wbt. Hi my readers!

Okay for today feels to share something might be our basic knowledge which something about someone. As we know that now is too many choices and what not, to be 'Someone Special'. I have a story to share, but not TOO story but I will add a bit more knowledge what I learn before with my stories. So this post will like knowledgeable lah untuk awak awak baca.

First, we will talk about agreement.

Agreement is definitely will happen between 2 parties/individual. So mereka ini 'Agree' to became a partner in special way. Boify/Girlfy. Gitew laaaa. Do we need to say 'Yes' if we single that time? Not really isn't. U need to know what we both need to do when the problem arise, u need to know how to handle ur partners understanding or feeling and what not, u need to taking care of another body that u really need to taking care of. Before u say 'Yes', u need to think wisely of course kita nak akhiri dengan nikah which is married. Soap yang tak nak kahwin isn't. Tapi, adakah kita mampu? Salah kalau seorang lelaki mempermainkan seorang perempuan, JIKA tiada niat untuk kahwin dengannya. Dalam definisi ni, melibatkan banyak faktor. Antara kita samada kita mampu or tidak.

Second, we need to have tolerance.

Tolerance itu adalah tolak ansur. Kalau awak tak boleh nak tolak ansur, macam mana hubungan tu nak kekal lama? If dengan outsider pun u tak tolak ansur, how come with ur partner nanti. Everyone can say and talk about love. But do they know how love is? Do they know how to get along with they called love? The difficult things that people not going to do is 'Tolerance'. Who say so? Dengan chidden dunia ni sekarang, it really hard to fight for tolerance matter. Believe me. Dalam tolerance we have respect, appology, and effort. When kita respect orang, automatically orang akan respect kita. Even though we now kita ni tak back macam orang lain, please be nice dengan orang, then Allah will help u then. How about apology? Bila kita into agreement, so make apologies is the first thing to make another scene become more comfortable. Zalimi ucap minta maaf, zalimi ucap kasih sayang. This one is got from one Ustaz but tak ingat siapa. Maafkan saya. For effort pula, for me everyone nak tengok how far someone tu beri effort pada kita. I think, if u wanna share what u do to make someone knows what is ur intention untuk ke jalan 'Nikah', I think that is not a problem. Bahkan menambahkan rasa kepercayaan seseorang tu pada u.

Third, we need to believe him/her.

Dalam orang beri kita kepercayaan pada kita, jangan dibuat main. Example, u kerja dengan adanya kepercayaan majikan u pada u. Then u pergi kerja, tapi u tak buat kerja. Possibility tak u akan dibuang kerja? Of course dibuang kerja. Apatah lagi dalam relationship. To get someone trust is hard, to break someone trust is easy. Choice is in ur hands. Whoever have tend to break the trust, u are among the losers. Orang beri u kepercayaan, ada hati u break the rules? So u semua dah besar panjang, jadi think wisely.

Last but not least, we need to pray.

Tawakkal pada Allah samada relationship anda diberkati. As simple as that, but people make it complicated. Trust urself with ur choice, no matter how hard the time is, u really need to be together is u wish for. Get personal opinion form family is the best. If family gonna say as positive, so go fight for it. If vice versa, u need more effort untuk tunjuk pada family u. Family u kenal u, and u need moral support dari meeker. Percayalah, redha Allah datang dari redha keluarga. But something u really need to know is, Allah have wrote whoever be the place beside u. He knows better. So keep pray.

I wrote and share this is based on what I know and what I experience with. It based on u whether to take it or what not. So, don't forget to be kind and have courage with people. Allah will grant u with anything else. Just do as sincerely u have. I think sampai sini saja. Anything I will post about everything that just through on my mind hehehehehe. Hope all of u really enjoy with the reading. I apologies if anything wrong with my language and writing.

See you soon!

InsyaAllah.